When the Pattern Seems to Be Someone Else’s Fault
One of the most disorienting experiences in self-sabotage pattern work is the one where the pattern seems, with genuine certainty, to be someone else’s…
The beliefs, patterns, and inner programming that shape outcomes.
One of the most disorienting experiences in self-sabotage pattern work is the one where the pattern seems, with genuine certainty, to be someone else’s…
Working with self-sabotage patterns can feel impossible when the frame you’re holding is wrong. The right frame doesn’t eliminate the work — but it…
The term “self-sabotage” is widely used and loosely defined. Most uses imply a moral or character judgment — the person is doing something counterproductive…
She had been teaching about self-sabotage patterns for three years before she found her own.
Q: People keep telling me I have a fear of success. Is that what self-sabotage patterns are?
You’ve done the work. Probably more than most people in your life would ever understand. And somewhere along the way — maybe early on,…
Most visualisation practices for limiting beliefs ask you to picture yourself succeeding. Hold the vision. Feel it as real. And while that can be…
Not eliminating limiting beliefs. Not defeating them or overcoming them or replacing them with better ones. Shifting your relationship with them.
There’s a specific kind of disorientation that comes from being partway through a significant shift in how you understand yourself and the world.
The mid-awakening stage — the period when something has clearly shifted, when the old frameworks no longer fit, when the world looks different but…