Relationships & Community

These questions are diagnostic — not to judge where you are, but to give you accurate information. Honest answers reveal which aspects of this…

Not every moment of limit-holding difficulty is a pattern worth investigating. Honest communication is sometimes genuinely hard — the situation is novel, the relationship…

This is a composite portrait of how the multi-year limit pattern tends to unfold and eventually shift — drawn from patterns common in this…

Q: I worry that working on my limit pattern means becoming harsh or blunt. What’s the difference between holding limits and just being unkind?

There’s a common tendency in entrepreneurial development to treat business challenges as business problems — to look at pricing, positioning, marketing, or strategy when…

In most families, you were assigned a role before you were old enough to choose one. The responsible one. The one who holds the…

Many conscious entrepreneurs have developed sophisticated capacities for giving — in their work, in their relationships, in their communities. The capacity for receiving —…

There is a version of your home life that looks, from the outside, like generosity. You are the listener in the relationship. You are…

The over-giving pattern in healers runs in two domains simultaneously: the professional domain where it shows up as unsustainable service, and the intimate relational…