The Integration Practice for Boundaries and Difficult Conversations
You’ve been collecting insights. You know the pattern. You have had the realisation — sometimes more than once — about why boundaries are hard…
How we show up with others — clients, partners, community, family.
You’ve been collecting insights. You know the pattern. You have had the realisation — sometimes more than once — about why boundaries are hard…
Most approaches to limits and difficult conversations start from the mind — what to say, how to frame it, what position to hold. The…
You spent years in environments with clear structures. Hierarchy told you who got to say what to whom. HR policies, management chains, performance reviews…
You know your rate. You set it with care. You’ve thought about the value you bring, the years of training behind it, the transformation…
You’ve been working on this for a while. Maybe years. You’ve read the books, you’ve done the work, you’ve had the insights. And still…
There’s a particular kind of avoidance that’s harder to name than the more obvious kind. Not the conversation you’re postponing with someone else —…
When people begin working on their boundary patterns, they typically reach the first layer fairly quickly: the behavior. They start to see the pattern,…
You can understand the pattern. You can understand where it came from. You can understand what beliefs are driving it. You can even have…
There’s something about limit work that almost reverses on close examination. The closer you look at what people who struggle with limits believe, the…
Not all awareness is equally useful in this territory. General self-awareness — knowing that you have a people-pleasing pattern, knowing it came from somewhere,…