8 Ways Self-Sabotage Patterns Show Up in Pricing and Money
Economic self-sabotage is among the most consequential and most disguised forms of the pattern. It almost never looks like self-sabotage — it looks like…
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Economic self-sabotage is among the most consequential and most disguised forms of the pattern. It almost never looks like self-sabotage — it looks like…
The common account of self-sabotage — you have a part that fears success, recognize it, push through — leaves out some of the most…
The challenge of recognizing self-sabotage patterns in your own business is that they look, from the inside, like sensible responses to real circumstances. The…
Self-sabotage in conscious business doesn’t look like drama. It looks like reasonable decisions, appropriate caution, and genuine care for clients. The seven types below…
Integration is the often-neglected phase of self-sabotage work: the period after insight, after somatic work, after identity exposure, during which the changes that have…
Shadow work and self-sabotage pattern work share a deep structural overlap: both involve bringing awareness and relationship to parts of the self that have…
Self-sabotage pattern work is not a weekend workshop or a single breakthrough. It is daily — not because the work is heavy, but because…
Many self-sabotage patterns have their center of gravity not in belief and not in the body, but in identity: the organized sense of who…
The language of “rewiring” is used loosely in personal development, sometimes to mean any form of mindset shift. Used precisely, it means something specific:…
Most inner work on self-sabotage operates at the cognitive level: identify the belief, question the belief, build an alternative belief. This approach is valuable…
The 6-Layer Model — Essence, Ego, Narrative, Somatic, Behavioral, Relational — provides a framework for locating where resistance is held and which level of…
The CLARITI method — Construct Identity, Liberate Beliefs, Acquire Skills, Reinforce Traits, Identify Roadblocks, Transformational Work — is an identity-level transformation methodology. Applied to…