Long-form essays, short field notes, technique deep-dives, and answers to the same handful of questions we keep getting asked. Searchable. Sorted by pillar. Free, always.
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Q: I’m ready to start actively working on this pattern. What should the first week actually look like?
Q: I’ve noticed that most of the people I see discussing this pattern in entrepreneurial communities are women. Is this pattern gendered?
Q: I understand what the unhealthy patterns look like. But I’m less clear on what I’m actually aiming for. What does the positive version…
Q: I’m aware that I’m modeling something for the people I work with — including my children if they ever join the business. Does…
Q: There’s something I need to address with a client before a specific deadline. The pressure is increasing. What do I do when there’s…
Q: My clients often tell me how much they appreciate my warmth and accessibility. I’m worried that working on my limit-holding will make me…
Q: I notice that when a client is going through a difficult time personally or professionally, my limit-holding becomes much harder. What’s happening?
Q: I’m going through a period of significant business expansion — more clients, a team, more revenue. I expected this to feel easier, but…
Q: Sometimes I notice the accommodation happening in real time — I’m in the middle of agreeing to something I shouldn’t be agreeing to.…
Q: I’ve been wondering if my imposter syndrome and my limit-holding challenges are the same pattern in different clothes, or genuinely separate issues.
Q: I have a significant spiritual practice and yet the relational pattern persists. I expected the spiritual work to address this. Why hasn’t it?
Q: I’ve noticed that my perfectionism and my limit-holding difficulties seem to be connected. Am I right, and how do they relate?