How Do I Start Working on Self-Sabotage Patterns? First Steps
Q: I’m convinced I have self-sabotage patterns that are affecting my business. Where do I actually start?
Long-form essays, short field notes, technique deep-dives, and answers to the same handful of questions we keep getting asked. Searchable. Sorted by pillar. Free, always.
Q: I’m convinced I have self-sabotage patterns that are affecting my business. Where do I actually start?
Q: I’ve been working on my self-sabotage for years. Will I ever be fully free of it, or is this just something to manage…
Q: When I hear about self-sabotage patterns, part of me wonders if the explanation is simpler: I just don’t want success badly enough. Is…
Q: I’ve read about self-sabotage patterns and I think I might have them. But when I look at my actual decisions, they all feel…
Q: I genuinely care about my clients and I want to do excellent work. But I think I’m over-delivering and undercharging in a way…
Q: I know my rates are right. I know I should hold them. In the actual conversation, I can’t seem to do it. What’s…
Q: I genuinely can’t tell whether my hesitation is self-sabotage or legitimate caution. Is there a way to distinguish them?
Q: Why does my sabotage specifically get worse when things are going well? Shouldn’t it be easier when there’s evidence that things are working?
Sofia had built her coaching practice the way most things in her life had been built: alongside people she loved and who knew her.…
Daniel had six businesses in seven years. Or more accurately: he had started six businesses, built each to a certain level of traction, and…
Priya was one of the most capable people in her professional community. Her peers knew it. Her clients knew it. The invitations to speak,…
Marcus had been in practice for eight years as a somatic healer and had, in that time, genuinely changed lives. His client roster was…