So last time we talked of conditioning and the fear of being yourself and how that was costing me greatly (and I suspect it costs you greatly in some areas, too?).
Conditioning makes you think you are out of your mind when you are being your Real Self.
Conditioning is shit. Trust me, I have seen it’s underbelly. Sure, conditioning will get you a job, get you a date, get you to pay your taxes on time, and get you everything else it is designed to get you when you ‘act like you should’. But its a prison, really, IMHO.
Our society’s particular brand of conditioning is a very well-crafted prison.
Someone/something deliberately made it. For a reason. It isn’t random.
Made eons ago, to be inherited generation after generation.
Like an unquestioned control virus.
You see, the moment one joins the world, learns English and all that, complications do set in…
Can you say the words “collective consciousness“?
I had to find new ways of thought that worked well and broke lose from the prison of conditioning, especially the conditioning of a third-world country ruled by a dictator.
I clearly realised that I needed several components to overcome conditioning, and thus become free and empowered, as follows…
“MUST-HAVE” COMPONENT #1: Abundance Consciousness
I needed to change from a scarcity mindset to an abundant consciousness and mindset. A.k.a. wealth consciousness. They tell you there is not enough. That is a lie. There is more than enough. The basis of this is spiritual – but it makes the financial possible. A Happy Pocket Full of Money, my book (and now the accompanying video course), was the first exploration into that. I actually initially wrote it as notes for myself as I received guidance from within and without. Then later released it for other people to benefit from it. And not surprisingly, people loved it! See some of the thousands and thousands of testimonials I got for it:
The Secret, in which I was Creative Consultant, was another exploration into that.
“MUST-HAVE” COMPONENT #2: How To Leverage Our Unique Strengths & Passions, Get Paid Well For It, Possibly Turn It Into A Real Business, And Invest Like A Pro
Wealth consciousness wasn’t enough. Yes, it brought in money, but I kept bouncing between money and no money like a yoyo. Money in, happy days! Money runs out, start freaking out a bit. I get a hold of myself, then money in, yippee! Then money gone…
Even if I scaled up the wealth level, from small things to big things, the same problem remained, only in different scale!! Boring cycle to stay stuck in! Gots to fix that!
So I needed to learn about the way high-income-earning works, how businesses work, how investments work – and not that basic kindergarten crap they feed us in magazines, but what actual self-made millionaires and billionaires do, and then scale it down to my size. (I saved it for you, too, here you go.)
“MUST-HAVE” COMPONENT #3: Cultivating An Undefeated Mind & Emotional Vulnerability
I also needed to understand how my mind and emotions work. I realised that without the techniques of an undefeated mind and the ability to feel safe in the presence of absolutely ANY emotion at ANY time (a skill that is called emotional vulnerability), everything else fell apart. No matter how rich I got, everything fell apart without emotional vulnerability and an undefeated mind. Got that sorted (I share it with you here).
“MUST-HAVE” COMPONENT #4: Understanding That Life Is Actually Quantum, Not Linear
Then came the “facts of life” that had been so drummed into me by my past. I realised there is no such thing as “a fact of life”. There is only beliefs about life, and life itself was fluid, not fixed. It was quantum, not linear. A belief was what created the “fact of life” and all it’s supporting evidence. I believe my inquiry into quantum physics was one of the most important things I ever have done in my life – it gave me faith in and a scientific understanding of the possibilities of instant and dramatic change! Why miracles work, basically. Check it out here.
“MUST-HAVE” COMPONENT #5: Becoming Conscious of the Subconscious
Nowadays, we all know that our deepest patterns of identity and behavior are stored in this mysterious place called the subconscious. Everybody knows that.
If your life or a part of your life is stuck and you have tried everything and nothing changes, you somehow know that the problem/solution is in your subconscious.
But what is the subconscious?
Really, what is it? Have you ever been given a straight answer?
I mean, has anyone ever pointed a finger at an actual ‘thing’, and said to you, “Look, there! You see that pink round object? That is the subconscious! And you see how those little blue gears turn the big lever? That is its mechanism, that is how it works!”
Think about that 🙂
To me, the subconscious was a big mystery that had to be solved! Because, despite all I had learned, despite being on the “right side of the TV” when it came to being part of the team making The Secret or writing A Happy Pocket Full of Money, despite everything I knew and did, some “bad shit” just stuck on!
- What did this subconscious “bad stuff” want?
- Where precisely was it hiding?
- And how could I sort it out?
Finally, one day, tired of struggling with some of the same old same old for over 30 years, wondering if I will struggle with it another 50 years, I decided that come rain or shine, no matter what, despite what scary monsters lie within, I was going to go in and make the subconscious conscious!
WOW, what a journey!!!!
I… actually, let me save that for later. I don’t want to ruin the surprise. You simply need to see it for yourself. The subconscious! A most beautiful system that is not just human but cosmic! And it is at your service. It isn’t against you. You just need to know what to do.
You know the first thing I learned about why the subconscious is “subconscious”, hidden?
It isn’t actually hidden!
Not at all.
So why aren’t we aware of it?
Well, do you see gravity? No.
Do you see love? No.
Do you see magnetic fields? No.
Do you see energy? Most likely not.
Unseen energies that make a difference…
You know these things are there all around you, but you don’t see them or think them, do you? No.
Because they are multidimensional!
They cannot be detected with the five body senses, because the five body senses are 3D instruments.
And the brain is a 3D tool, too, a computational engine designed to survive and navigate 3D reality. Hence the brain cannot feel love, gravity, energy, magnetism or the subconscious. Have you noticed that the brain cannot feel love. The heart can. But not the brain. Why not?
Let me break it down for you like this: your vehicle (your body), is a piece of technology, and that piece of technology has some sensors designed specifically to generate the sensation of being in a 3D environment (hence the saying we project our reality). The brain is a 3D component. It was built to NOT experience multi-dimensionality; instead, it was built to “reduce” Who You Really Are, down to singular, linear, 3D experience. That is the game! Thus, it is not possible to see love, gravity, magnetism, energy, or the subconscious using that particular component of your vehicle. Instead, you require a different set of components that do come with your vehicle for multi-dimensional experience, but we are conditioned not to turn them on. Yet when you turn those other sensors on, the subconscious becomes as clear as day! It is only that we aren’t taught about them.
To put it another way, consciousness has physics. Check it out here.
“MUST-HAVE” COMPONENT #6: Learning How To Re-program The Subconscious
Yes, this is different from making the subconscious conscious. You see, the first step is to see the parts of the subconscious, how they work, and how they connect to each other to form a whole.
That is the first part. Opening up the clock to see how it is put together, how it ticks and how it tocks.
Then, once you see how it comes together, you understand it.
Understanding is the beginning of freedom.
Its like cooking. It is far better to understand the basic principles of cooking first, because that allows you to become creative in making up your own recipes. But if you jump straight to making a dish from a recipe without understanding the basic principles, then you kinda become stuck to that one recipe only, and if it goes wrong, you won’t know how to fix it.
So the first part is to become conscious of the subconscious, to understand it. The basic principles.
And then the next step is to learn how to reprogram it. The recipes.
“MUST-HAVE” COMPONENT #7: Having A Living Connection With Your Source
A spiritual connection trumps everything!
And I am not talking of religion – you can stick with whatever religion works for you. There is no right or wrong one.
I am talking instead of an inner connection with your Source. A living connection.
Why does this trump everything else?
Lots of reasons. Here are a few…
- The more I opened up to receiving guidance from within, the easier everything became!
- I also came to love myself a great deal more.
- The more conditioning fell off me by itself.
- This was the ultimate self-confidence booster.
- It came with a unique type of abundance I like to call ever-present sufficiency.
- The mind clears up!
- Everything seems a lot more positive or rosy. Little things that used to freak me out or drive me nuts now just fly by like feathers in the wind.
- Bliss comes often.
- Synchronicity increases.
- Whenever I contemplate a big life question, the answer seems to come quickly from within or without.
- I enjoy serving others, gives a great sense of fulfillment. Yet, simultaneously, I find it easier to say no without feeling any need to explain myself. An interesting paradox.
- And much much more.
I have to say that of this whole list, this is the most personal of all. Because no one can take you there – it is a very unique place for each individual. And there is no right or wrong style or way.
However, I find that the one thing in common with all ways and styles is that they all work by leading a person through the process of going beyond the self-created identities (ego).
And next, I will show you how things started to work out just fine once all these pieces fell into place!